Matthew 6:34

"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will take care of itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew 6:34

Monday, December 5, 2016

Christmas Baking!

One of my family's favorite Christmas traditions is our Christmas Baking Day.  Us "Medley" girls get together at one of our houses with recipes and supplies in hand, and spend the afternoon in the kitchen.  At the end of our baking time, we divide up the treats and take them home to enjoy.


We have some treats that we make every year- Chex mix, crock pot candy, and cookies.  And we have an order that we do things.  The crock pot candy takes the longest, so that gets started first.


The crock pot candy- we ended up with a total of 4 dozen pieces of candy each!



Then it's time for my specialty, the Chex mix.  And while that's going on my mom gets the cookies started.



Last but not least, Margaret usually has some fun new recipes to try.  This year she did Ranch Oyster crackers and these sweet/salty bugle bites.  It was so good!

The bugle bites!


Helping Margaret with the oyster crackers.


Oyster crackers on the left and bugle bites on the right.  And just some of our ingredients pictured.


We have such a good time together and really enjoy our Christmas baking tradition!

Monday, November 7, 2016

Zumba Fun!

Zumba is so much fun!  Sometimes we like to do theme classes or a special Zumba class.

In the Friday afternoon class before Halloween, we had costume day.  And it did not disappoint!

Melissa (Rosie the Riveter), and Rachel (Boo from Monsters Inc.)  are so fun!

Melissa and Rachel are not only very faithful to Friday Zumba class, but they stayed in their costumes for the entire class!  (I did too, but it wasn't hard to do in my minion costume.)


Last Friday, all of us Zumba Instructors decided to do an all day Zumba event.  Beth (the Monday night teacher) and I went to Rachael's Friday morning class.  And then Beth and Rachael came to my Friday afternoon class.  We all took turns teaching in both classes, and the attendees seemed to like it. It was such a fun day!

All of us with Rachael's class- those ladies are full of energy!


So it's November 7th already.  You know what's coming next- Zumba Christmas routines!!!

Thursday, October 20, 2016

November is National Adoption Month

The holidays are getting closer and closer.  And it almost feels like fall here in the south.  Most people have a favorite season or time of year, but I like them all.  I like that (usually) we get all four seasons here: fall, winter, spring and summer.  We tend to be off from the calendar by a few days or sometimes weeks, but we typically get a taste of all.  Fall weather is approaching slower this year.  I can't believe it's the 20th day of October and it's shorts and t-shirt weather still!

As we approach November, we have lots of dates marking family/friends get-togethers on the calendar.  One of the things to be thankful for and to celebrate is National Adoption Month, which is November.  Many churches do an Orphan Sunday around the first of November.  What an awesome way to bring to people's attention how many children in the US are legal orphans and waiting for a forever family.  And to so many children across the globe waiting for families.  I pray that one day our home will be a safe place and a forever home for one of those children (or several...).

In thinking about adoption I am always thankful.  Thankful for my parents and that God put our family together; thankful for my twin sister, Margaret, and that we get to share an adoption story.  Thankful for life!  And of course thankful for my birth mother who could have chosen to terminate her pregnancy, killing Margaret and me in the process.  But she chose the path of life and I am forever thankful.  Sh even took extra steps to live somewhere that she would not be talked into having an abortion.  This is one of the many reasons that I will never support abortion or pro-choice ideas/politicians.

In celebrating National Adoption Month, there are many ways to support adoption.  Not all are called to adopt, but all can do something to show support.  I've posted links to some awesome blogs below that list how we can come alongside foster and adoptive families and show support.  Please take the time to read them.  How incredible it would be if all of us did just one of the ways to help foster/adoptive families in our church or community!

http://jasonjohnsonblog.com/blog/making-orphan-care-normal-church

http://jasonjohnsonblog.com/blog/ten-ways-your-church-can-get-involved-foster-care

https://cafo.org/orphansunday/resources/event-ideas/

Tuesday, October 11, 2016

Fit For the Holidays- it's not what you think...

I recently had the privilege to write an article for our church's monthly magazine.  They asked me to write on being fit for the holidays- ha!  First thought- you're asking me to write on this topic??  I do love my Zumba and my walks outside, but this girl usually pigs out during the holidays.  It started years ago; there is even a picture floating around somewhere of me licking a plate clean.  No joke.  The cherry on top is that it was my mom's fine china plate.  She was horrified!  That was a good meal...

Second thought- hey, this might be a good way to have some accountability in my eating habits.  I need that and I really am trying to get my eating under control.  So I wrote something.  (I'll post the article at the end of this post in case anybody wants to read it.)  I think I wrote and re-wrote this article about 3 times.  I was limited to 800-1000 words, and that was a challenge for a chronic babbler like me.  And I wasn't sure which direction I wanted to go with it.  There are lots of ways to be fit for the holidays: physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually.

I ended up writing a lot about Zumba because I just love it.  I found a way to exercise that doesn't feel like exercise.  It's fun and a great workout.  I write about it so much and encourage ladies to attend a class because I know how it has affected my life, and I want that for others.  It took several teenage girls to convince me to attend the first class.  One class was all it took- I was hooked, even though that was the most uncoordinated I have ever felt.

So ladies, if you are in the Huntsville, AL area and looking for a fun way to get a good workout in, come check out a Zumba class!  The Whitesburg Baptist Recreation Ministry offers 3 Zumba classes: Mondays 6-7 pm and Fridays 8:30-9:30 am and 1:30-2:30 pm.  I teach the Friday afternoon class and sometimes get to sub in the other classes.  Ditch the workout and join the party!

Here's the article for anyone interested:

Y’all I do not like to exercise.  Especially around the holidays, because who has time??   For several years my sweet husband, Brandon, tried to talk me into doing some type of exercise.  I believed him when he said that it would make me feel better, I just didn’t want to.  I had not found exercise that I wanted to do, or that was fun.  And then I found Zumba! 

Zumba is a Latin-inspired, aerobic type exercise class that burns lots of calories and is so fun!  It was a slow start for me, but I was moving and doing something.   After going for a few weeks, I was able to do the routines better and didn’t feel so clumsy.  It didn’t matter if I did it exactly right; the point was just moving, being active.  Brandon was right- I felt so much better just by being active.  Plus, laughing while exercising burns more calories!  An unexpected result of consistently attending class was that I became a part of a small group.  Our Zumba ladies love exercising together and even get together outside of class.  We just do life together.  Zumba classes are offered at our Recreation Outreach Center, with several different options to attend.  For more information, contact the awesome ladies in the Recreation Ministry!

Naturally, Zumba or other aerobic classes aren’t for everyone.   But being active is!  Brandon and I like to go on walks together.  Some of our favorite walks are around our neighborhood to look at the Christmas lights.  It’s even fun to bundle up in the cold weather.  And ladies, as a bonus you get to wear those cute scarves and hats you see on Pinterest!  If cold weather walks aren’t your thing, there are lots of places around Huntsville to walk inside.  You can even walk inside your house.  I remember my dad doing that when I was a little girl.  I used to follow him around that small house, walking from corner to corner.  Walking is fairly low impact for your joints also.  Going on walks is a great time for conversations.  Sometimes I have the best talks while walking!  If you prefer to walk alone, it can be a wonderful time for praying and worshipping the Lord.  

Whatever you choose to do, just get moving!  I believe that life is a gift from God. Being able to move and breathe and exercise is a gift that I ignored for far too long.  James 4:14 says, “… What is your life?  For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.”   I am so thankful for life and don’t want to waste a single day!

More important than being physically fit, however, is being spiritually fit.  If this part of my life is out of shape, then the rest is too.   Look at these instructions from the apostle Paul to the Colossians, “Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another, and if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other, as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.  And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.  And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body.  And be thankful.  Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.  And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.”  Colossians 3:12-17


I don’t know about you, but these words are so helpful and encouraging, especially during the holidays when it can be stressful, chaotic, and overwhelming.   I might not be able to control the circumstances or situations around me, but I can choose how I react.   I can choose to put on the new self, this new identity that I have in Christ.  My prayer is that God will use us, in every situation, to advance His Kingdom and to bring Him glory.

Thursday, September 29, 2016

More Things I Have Learned Along the Way

Sometimes I feel so incredibly unaware of things going on around me.  That could be a side affect of being so consumed with myself, unfortunately.

In the past couple of months I have reconnected with some friends over lunches here and there.  And it was incredible!  I had forgotten how much I need the fellowship and encouragement from Godly ladies.  I have that already with my family, and it is so nice to have that in friends as well.  This was a big step for me, as I am kind of an introvert, and putting myself out there is a little scary.

I sat and talked and listened to each one of my friends and what is going on in their lives.  (FYI- I am not much of a conversationalist but I love to listen!)  As they each talked about their struggles and their forms of infertility, my heart broke for them.  So many memories were brought back to the surface.  Their hurts and fears were almost word for word the same feelings that I felt.  When they said that they knew I would understand how they felt and what they were going through, our bond of friendship was made even stronger.  I cried with them and for them.  Infertility is cruel and even more so, some of the comments made by people about a couple's situation with infertility.  And every situation is different.  Here's my PSA: if you don't know what to say to someone who has been given heartbreaking news (whether it's dealing with infertility or any other situation), a simple "I'm so sorry" or "I am praying for you" or even just a hug is enough.  Please don't try to give advice or reason away the situation.

My take-away lesson was first to get my eyes off of myself because there are a lot of hurting people around me.  That really does make the pity party go away.  Second, God is still moving and working even though I don't see it.  Every situation is a chance to show God's love and to point people to Him.

It was so good to have lunch with my friends.  I sometimes think that the struggles that Brandon and I have faced in the area of infertility aren't a huge deal.  Maybe I've just pushed it to the back of my mind.  But if it can help someone else that is going through it, then I'm glad to be there for them.

We had a recent trip to Houston to visit my Mamaw.  We celebrated her birthday while we were there. It was a good trip, but I really missed Brandon being there!  Here are some pictures.

Mamaw in her usual "Fox News watching" pose.  Check out her shoes!

A fun spot we found while shopping at the Kemah boardwalk.

Margaret, Aunt Lynn, and me on the train at Kemah.

My Mom and Dad with the birthday girl!

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Mother's Day...

Mother's Day.  I  used to hate the days, no- WEEKS, leading up to it.  The day itself was fun, because I could celebrate my mom and mother-in-law, and grandmothers.  I love that part of it.  But hearing the endless commercials and conversations all around me during the lead up was almost more than I could take.

And let's not forget that the entire church service on Mother's Day was all about Mothers, almost two full hours of it.  It was only my bad attitude that kept from being able to truly enjoy it.  I allowed my pity party and lack of contentment to shift my focus.  It is a wonderful thing to celebrate Mothers.  It just stings a little when you are not one.  My plan for several years was to skip the Mothers Day service.  I needed to go home and get my food ready for our meal anyway.  That was my excuse haha.

Well, this is the year that I will stay for the church service.  Even if the whole thing is about how wonderful it is to be a Mother, which I don't think it will be, I have to stay!  It's a battle that I am determined to win.

Life has not turned out the way I expected or planned, but if I truly believe what Romans 8:28 says, I will not sink back down into that self-centered black hole.  I do believe that "... for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose."  The note in my ESV Study Bible for this verse puts it this way: "God weaves everything together for good for his children.  The 'good' in this context does not refer to earthly comfort but conformity to Christ, closer fellowship with God, bearing good fruit for the kingdom, and final glorification."

I trust God with my life; He gave me life; I have surrendered it to Him, so it's really His anyway, to be used for His glory.  I might not understand why things have turned out the way they have, and I might not know that this side of heaven, but I trust Him.  I just have to be reminded of that on the days that I start feeling sorry for myself.

So if anyone is reading this and is struggling with unmet expectations, hang in there.  Take heart and trust in Jesus.  Things on this earth are so temporary anyway, but the eternal things will last.  Trust me- I do not say these things flippantly, and it has taken me a while to get to this point.  But only having that relationship with a living, loving Savior is what gives me hope.  Hope for eternity with Christ, and hope while I am here on this earth.

This is my prayer for my life and for others who might be struggling in the same way:
"Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.  Let your reasonableness be known to everyone.  The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus... for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content."  Philippians 4:4-7, 11b.

So all of you Mothers out there- I do celebrate you and celebrate with you.  Life is a miracle and a gift from God.  I thank you for choosing life for your children!  May God bless you and your families, and help you in raising your precious children.

Here are just a few of the Mothers that I celebrate this Mothers Day:
My beautiful Mama and sister!

My fun and Bama-loving mother-in-law!

My sweet sister-in-law (in the middle)!

Haha Mama and Daddy at the SEC tournament, taking pictures of course!  (Mama's in the pink jacket.)  They even got on tv for a second or two!

My courageous and unselfish birth mother, who gave Margaret and me life- I can never thank her enough!


Happy Mother's Day!